Melanie: I want to pick up our story where we left off in our last post! We talked about your longtime colleague and friend, Dr. Tom Graboys, and his patient Cindy Bremer Smiegal. Dr. Graboys was tragically afflicted with Parkinson’s disease and Lewy body dementia.* He was only 61-years-old when he retired from cardiology in 2005.
Grandpa: Tom was not ready to leave medicine. He felt guilty for abandoning devoted patients. Praise from patients like Cindy and his colleagues poured in from far and wide. A Harvard Law School professor, Philip Heymann, wrote, “I have never dealt with a doctor whose skills, honesty, and considerateness I have admired more.”
Tom was both a dedicated teacher and a mentor to medical students, house staff, and patients. The media turned to him for reliable guidance in health matters. Despite his grave medical condition, he continued to work, ever a source of optimism, always greeting patients with cheer. I have often referred to him as “a jewel in the crown.”
Melanie: I recently called Cindy at home in upstate New York. She has quite the story! Continue reading